1.29.2009

Revolutionary Read

For book club Wednesday, we gathered at Peggy's lovely Haysville home to discuss Richard Yates' "Revolutionary Road." I finished the book right before bed Tuesday and absolutely loved the writing, imagery and drama in the tragic tale. To me, the theme was how all the characters were spending their lives pretending to be people they were not, even to the point of self-deception.

I would love to see the movie that's out now with Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet. I want to see if the director imaged the scenes unfolding the same way I did when I absorbed the details.

One of the things I loved about the book was how it described ordinary human experiences in an extraordinary way. Consider this excerpt, which describes two couples getting together for the evening.

"Hi!" They called to one another.
"Hi! ..." "Hi! ..."
This one glad syllable, borne up through the gathering twilight and redoubling back from the Wheelers' kitchen door, was the traditional herald of an evening's entertainment. Then came the handshakings, the stately puckered kissings, the sighs of amiable exhaustion -- "Ah-h-h"; "Who-o-o" -- suggesting that miles of hot sand had been traveled for the finding of this oasis or that living breath itself had been held, painfully, against the promise of this release. In the living room, having sipped and grimaced at the first frosty brimming of their drinks, they pulled themselves together for a moment of mutual admiration; then they sank into various postures of controlled collapse.

1.28.2009

Brrrrr to the grrrrr

When fluffy snowflakes started to fall Tuesday, Brian was working from home. He grabbed the camera and took his lunch break outside with the pups:





Arkansas images

Some miscellaneous photos I snapped during my Arkansas weekend trip:

Walkway, University of Arkansas campus

A charming barn near Amanda & Kurtis' house

Public mural, downtown Bentonville

Arkansas church steeple

Saturday sunset, rural Fayetteville

Wine cellar at Noodles Italian Kitchen in Fayetteville

Psssst!

Another highlight of my recent Fayetteville adventure was seeing the PostSecret exhibit at the Crystal Bridges at the Massey museum in Bentonville.

PostSecret is an amazing phenomenon in which people send in their deepest, darkest secrets anonymously on postcards. You can see new ones each week on the PostSecret Web site.

The exhibit was heart-wrenching, hilarious, reassuring and fascinating -- an interesting blend of art and pop culture.






It meant a lot to me to see it with Amanda because she and I spent time
looking at the book "PostSecret" together while Mom was in the hospital last summer. It was just something we could talk about that took our mind off everything else. It was an equally entertaining and therapeutic bonding experience.

Fayetteville thrill

This past weekend, Brian & I took a road trip to Fayetteville to visit Kurtis & Amanda and see their new home, which they purchased a few months ago. It was adorable, and I loved our visit, which included these fun highlights:

We enjoyed breakfast at Rick's Bakery, the local legendary donut place where we tasted The Best blueberry cake donut and apple fritter any of us had had. I'm pretty sure I consumed galleries just admiring the beautiful baked goods.






We watched the Razorbacks lose horribly to Auburn. It was pretty gruesome, to be honest, but college basketball is always a good time.

















We saw Kurtis, who works for the university, in action during the game. (Doesn't he look official? Very impressive.)


And, while I can respect the Razorback mascot and whole "woo pig sooie" chant, I still count my lucky stars that I'm a Rock-Chalk-Jayhawk kinda girl. (See what I mean?!)



(For fun, check out definition No. 2 of "woo pig sooie" from Uban Dictionary.)

We hung out at the newlyweds' home, chatted and enjoyed spending time together, which was my favorite part of the trip. I miss my youngest sister! It was a fabulous trip, especially considering that I haven't been out to see Amanda since our girls' weekend in September. And Brian & I, believe it or not, haven't been out there together since September 2007. (I'll share a little bit more about the trip in the next couple of posts.)

Now my prayers are with them and other residents who are struggling with power outages and ice storms. My aunt & uncle, who live in the Ozarks, may be without power for up to three weeks. It's difficult to imagine.

1.22.2009

Runnin' around

After a weekend celebrating Brian's b-day, this week has been all about getting back to a regular routine.

For starters, Brian is now officially a Verizon employee. (For those of you who don't have your finger on the pulse of the cellular industry, Verizon purchased Brian's previous employer, Alltel. This is now the fourth cellular company he has worked for without actually switching jobs. Cingular and AT&T are also on his resume.)

Pictured with the pups is a random swag item Brian was given at a company welcome dinner tonight. Dakota especially loved them and popped the two Brian brought home. After I took this photo, I asked Brian what those promotional things are called. "Thundersticks," he told me. "It's a real product." I didn't believe the ridiculous name, so I Googled it -- and was pleasantly surprised. Wikipedia shows a photo of a KU basketball game in its definition. Rock Chalk!

For me, Inauguration Day kept the newsroom hopping. (For an inside peek, check out my colleague Lori L.'s blog.) It's been a week to remember as a journalist and an American.

In other things-keeping-us-busy-this-week news, Brian & I got together with his parents, Grandmother and her visiting sister and brother-in-law for a family dinner Wednesday night.

And, so far in 2009, I've stayed true to my commitment to hit the Y at least three times a week. I wish I would've also pledged to track my mileage. This week, for instance, I put in 10.5 miles on the treadmill and eight or so miles on the bike.

Up next: Another fun weekend. Stay tuned.

TGINF! (Thank God it's nearly Friday!)

1.18.2009

Brian's b-day party pics

Brian's 31st birthday weekend extravaganza included a guys' golf outing Saturday and a family brunch today at Granite City. But the highlight was a fabulous bowling party last night at The Alley.


Eric, center, visited from Lawrence. And some of our other friends who helped celebrate included, from left: Jeff, the b-day boy, Tony, Jeremey, Ann, Jen, me & Rob.


Brian earned the admiration of a cute little three-year-old. I teased Lexi's parents, Nick & Denise, that they'd have to pay for our marriage therapy. (Truth be told, I think Brian has finally found someone who he can relate to ...) You may have read about this little crush on Denise's blog. Here's the behind-the-scenes video of the moment she blogged about. (Need a laugh? Watch how Lexi rejects Brian when he tries to give her 10.)



Speaking of blogs, the b-day boy also made an appearance on Jaime's blog, thanks to the tasty cupcakes (thank you, Jen!) and his crazy T.

Other exciting scenes from the evening:


The biggest pizza I've ever seen ... and go-kart racing!






Additional party pics:


The guys, including Darren (pictured right of Brian).


The sisters. (Jen was thrilled to drop Kaden off with her in-laws and join us for the evening.)


The newlyweds, Sarah & Jeff.


Happy birthday to the man who has taught me to find laughter and joy in life, no matter what is thrown our way. I love you, Brian!
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